7th Sunday Ordinary Time, year C | Lk 6:27-38
If you can, try to think of someone who is your enemy. This could be someone who has done something to hurt you in the past. Maybe this is a family member or coworker that you simply cannot stand. It might be someone who you harbour strong negative feelings towards. Although we may not like to admit it, I think that we all have enemies in our life. Now, when you consider your enemy or enemies, what do you think and feel when you hear Jesus telling you in the Gospel today to “love your enemy”? No problem, right?!
The idea of loving our enemies can seem like an extremely difficult or even impossible task. Perhaps part of the reason why this is the case is that we misunderstand what Jesus means by “love”. When you consider movies, books and songs, how is the idea of love often portrayed? Often, when we think of the word “love”, we might think of some kind of emotion. Someone we love is an individual who we have strong positive feelings towards. People we love are those who we enjoy spending time with. If love is some kind of emotion, then loving our enemies is probably an impossible task. We all have been hurt, some of us greatly, by some individuals. How can Jesus possibly be asking us to have strong positive emotions towards someone who has hurt us or who is hurting us? How could Jesus possibly expect that we would enjoy to be around such people?
When Jesus is asking us to love our enemies, he is calling us to something much deeper than an emotional response. In Greek language and culture, there were several words used to describe “love”: eros, philia and agape. Eros was the word used to describe romantic love. Philia was the word used for love between friends. Agape was the term that describes unconditional, self sacrificial love. When Jesus tells us to love our enemies in the Gospel, the Greek word used is agape. Jesus, therefore, is not calling us to have love for our enemies in the emotional sense of the term. St. Thomas Aquinas well described the love that Jesus calls us to. He said that love is “willing the good of another”. Love, therefore, is not primarily about feeling a particular way about someone, but is about taking positive action on behalf of someone. In the Gospel, Jesus describes the positive actions that express our love for an enemy. We can do good for our enemy. We can bless our enemy, hoping that they find some good in their life. We can pray for our enemy, asking God to help them to experience what is good. When Jesus asks us to love our enemy, he is not telling us to have a positive emotional feeling towards those who harm us. Jesus is asking us to will the good of our enemy, praying that they find good and perhaps even performing some action that brings some goodness into their life.
The kind of love Jesus calls us to have towards our enemies, a love in action, is in some ways easier and in some ways harder than when we consider the prospect of having love in the emotional sense of the term towards our enemy. It is easier because emotional responses are often outside our control. It is not possible to force ourselves to have good and positive feelings towards those that harm us. Although we cannot force ourselves to feel a certain we, we can take actions that will bring good into the life of our enemies. This of course, is in some ways more difficult than simply having a good feeling towards someone. In the lives of the saints, we see some incredible examples of people who have loved their enemies by performing actions to bring goodness into their lives. We can think, for example of the St. Patrick who lived in the 5th century. When he was 6, St. Patrick was kidnapped by Irish pirates and brought from his home in Britain to Ireland. There he served as a slave for several years before he was able to escape and return home. Those who kidnapped Patrick and forced him to live as a slave could certainly be considered his enemies. Some years later, however, after Patrick was ordained a priest, he decided to return to Ireland and serve the people there as a missionary. He chose to bring the ultimate goodness - Jesus - into the lives of his enemies. This saint shows us in an extreme way the way Jesus calls us to love our enemies by taking some action that brings good into the life of our enemies.
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Try again to call to mind one of your enemies, someone who has harmed you. How might Jesus be calling you to love this individual? Remember that Jesus is not asking us to feel warm feelings towards this person. What action can you take to bring goodness into the life of your enemy? When other ways of bringing goodness into the life of our enemies seem too difficult, a great place to start is by saying a prayer for them.
