Rethinking Repentance

2nd Sunday of Advent | Luke 3:1-6

You might remember that one of the earliest trips that Pope Francis took after becoming Pope was to Lampedusa. There, he gave a powerful message about the need to care for migrants. Although what Pope Francis said was important, the context in which he said it was arguably more significant. First, he gave his talk in the midst of the migration crisis in which thousands were dying trying to cross the Mediterranean Sea and enter Europe. We should remember that these deaths continue. In 2018, over 2000 people died trying to cross the Mediterranean. Second, the place where he gave his talk was highly significant. Lampedusa, an island in the Mediterranean, is often the first stop for migrants. It is a place where many wait to enter Europe. The context in which Pope Francis gave his speech was as important as what he said. Today in the Gospel (Luke 3:1-6), the mission of John the Baptist in introduced: “he preached a baptism of repentance for the forgiveness of sins” (v. 3). As was the case of Pope Francis in Lampedusa, the context in which John preached this repentance is highly significant and helps us better comprehend his message. In particular, the gospel helps us rethink the meaning of repentance.

Domenico Ghirlandaio [Public domain]
First of all, Luke carefully sets the scene of John’s preaching in order to impress upon us that the message of John the Baptist is of universal significance. In the very beginning of the Gospel (vv. 1-2), Luke give a list of the leaders, both secular and religious, who are active when John begins his preaching. With this list, Luke makes it clear that John’s message will be universal in two main ways. First, John’s message is meant to have universal significance in the geographic sense of the word. In addition to mentioning the local political leaders (Herod and Philip), Luke mentions the Caesar (Tiberius), the ruler of Roman Empire and, in a certain sense, of the entire world. John’s message is meant to affect people all over the world. Second, in mentioning the religious leaders of the time (Annas and Caiaphas), Luke makes it clear that John’s message will be universal in the sense that it will affect all realms of life whether is be religious, political or social. By listing these rulers, Luke is sending a simple message: what John the Baptist has to say is meant to apply to all people and it is meant to impact all areas of their lives.

Within this universal context, the message of repentance that John proclaims is supposed to apply not only to the moral lives of individuals, but also to the social and political institutions of the time. In calling for repentance, John says that the status quo of both people’s personal lives as well as the socio-political order is wanting. In both areas they are called to cling closer to what God wants. This is an important message for us as we can tend to compartmentalize our faith life, making it quite individualistic. When we talk about repentance, we can focus merely on reforming our personal failings. Repentance means stopping to lie, cheat, use bad language etc. This kind of repentance is of course necessary. It is not, however, enough. John’s preaching is meant to have a universal impact that affects all realms of life. Repentance, therefore, also means changing political and social structures in order to make them more just. The Church has always been clear on this point and has a rich tradition of social teaching. In addition to the Catechism of the Catholic Church, we also have a Compendium of Social Doctrine of the Church. Although most Catholics have probably heard of, and perhaps own, the first document, I suspect that fewer are aware of, or have even seen, the second document. This is a problem. Because of the context in which Luke places John’s mission, his message of repentance should be understood as calling for change in the social and political order as well as in the personal morality of individuals.

More than this, the context in which Luke places John’s preaching helps us understand that the repentance that John calls for is closely connected to liberation. With his citation of Isaiah 40:3-5 in vv. 4-6, Luke explains that what John the Baptist is now doing is just like what the prophet Isaiah did. The passage that Luke quotes from Isaiah was uttered in the Exile in Babylon. At this time, the ruling class of Israel had been deported to Babylon after the Babylonian empire had utterly destroyed Jerusalem in 586 BC. The people to whom Isaiah (more specifically Deutero-Isaiah here) spoke in Exile were dejected and losing hope that they would ever return back to their land. Isaiah’s message was one of hope. He predicted that God would soon free them from Babylon. He preached that this act of liberation would be a kind of second Exodus. Just as God freed the people from slavery in Egypt, so he would liberate them now from Babylon. Isaiah tried to prepare the people for this great act of salvation. In like manner, John the Baptist’s call to repentance was preparation for and connected to the new act of liberation that God would work through Jesus. Jesus mission is a new Exodus and a new return of Exile. John the Baptist is preparing people for a new act of liberation.

As the Pope illustrated in Lampedusa, the context in which someone says something is as important as what that person says. In the Gospel today, Luke puts the preaching of John the Baptist in its proper context in order to better understand what what kind of repentance we are called to. In this way, the Gospel challenges us to broaden our idea of what repentance is. Repentance is not merely individualistic. Repentance is not something that applies to us when we are in Church or doing “Catholic stuff”. Quite simply, repentance is meant to liberate all people in all areas of life. Repentance applies to how we prayer and how often we go to Church as well as how we vote in local elections and what we think the minimum wage should be. On this second week of Advent, we are reminded that what Jesus does for us is meant to affect everything.

Advent: Preparing for Jesus' Three Arrivals

1st Sunday of Advent, year C | Lk 21:25-28, 34-36


Most Wednesday mornings in Rome the Pope gives an audience in St. Peter’s square. It is a highly anticipated event! People line up hours before access to the square is even possible in the hopes of securing a good seat. After they are seated, people wait in expectation for the Pope to appear on the raised platform at the head of the square. As they wait, the expectation of the people is palpable. They cannot wait for the Pope to arrive. Would you wait with this kind of expectation to meet the Pope? I certainly would! Now, consider this. Call to mind the great expectation of those people waiting to meet the Pope. Now, ask yourself, “am I waiting with the same attention and and excitement to meet Jesus?”
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The Gospel today speaks to us about the need to be ready to meet Jesus. At the start of the Gospel, Jesus uses apocalyptic, symbolic language in order to describe his future coming. Jesus identifies himself as the Son of Man, an enigmatic saviour-type figure that is described in the book of Daniel (c. 7). Jesus’ description of his coming is meant to evoke wonder and impress upon us the great importance of his coming. After his arrival, nothing will ever be the same again. Jesus predicts that some will respond to his coming with fear. For those who are ready and waiting for Jesus, however, their response will be quite different. They will hold their heads high. Jesus’ coming will be a moment of joy because he is their saviour. What is important, Jesus says, is that we are ready to meet him. We need to pray and stay sober and alert. We do not know when Jesus will come, but we want to be among those who meet Jesus with heads held high. We want to be ready to meet Jesus with joy.


The season of Advent, which we start this Sunday, reminds us that there are different ways that Jesus comes into the world. The words Advent comes from the Latin adventus and means “coming” or “arrival”. In one of his homilies, St. Bernard of Clairvaux says that there are three “arrivals” or “comings” of Jesus that Advent is meant to call our attention to. The first coming of Jesus was when he was born in Bethlehem. The third coming of Jesus is when he will come again at the end of time, bringing to completion his work of salvation and creating a new heaven and a new earth (Rev 21). This is the coming of Jesus that the Gospel describes. The second and intermediate arrival - or more accurately arrivals - of Jesus is between this first and third coming. This second coming of Jesus is all the different ways that Jesus enters our life here and now: 1) in our hearts in prayer; 2) in the sacraments; and 3) in those who suffer and are in need (Matthew 25).


Advent is a time to train ourselves to be attentive to the different ways Jesus comes into our life. Some of you have probably watched the show “Undercover Boss”. In this show, a high-level executive leaves the comfort of his or her cushy office, puts on a disguise and goes to work in a low-level job. There, the executive tries to learn what things are really like in the company and what the rank and file think of him or her. Usually, the rest of the employees do not recognize their undercover boss. Jesus often comes into our lives as an undercover boss. Often we can miss him because the disguise that he wears is not what we expect. Perhaps we expect that Jesus will come in a glorious, wonderful and pleasing disguise. In describing her experience of working with the poor, Mother Teresa would often remark that Jesus is present in the poor in a “distressing disguise”. In the poor and suffering, Mother Teresa was able to see Jesus. She understood that the love and service she showed them, she was also showing to Jesus. Jesus can come to us in various distressing disguises: a coworker who is arrogant and difficult to get along with; the poor person we meet who asks us for some change; an acquaintance who constantly asks for one favour or another;  a family member or friend who is struggling with an addiction. Jesus often meets us in a distressing disguise. In showing patience, kindness and care to these individuals, we show love to Jesus.


As we start the season of Advent today, we prepare ourselves to welcome Jesus. Not only do we want to get ready for Christmas, but we also want to become more attentive and capable of welcoming Jesus in the various ways that he comes into our life each and every day. Can you think of one individual in your life who may be Jesus in a distressing disguise?

An apocalypse of hope

33rd Sunday of Ordinary Time, Year B | Daniel 12:1-3; Mark 13:24-32

I really like to watch “apocalyptic” movies (e.g. Mad Max, the Matrix, World War Z, Snowpiercer etc.). These movies describe a not too distant future in which the world as we know it has been destroyed by some plague, cataclysmic war, environmental destruction or zombie uprising . Although these movies often show a small group of people battling for survival in their new reality, overall these movies are rather grim and fear-inducing. Perhaps I need to reflect on why I like them so much! In the Bible, we find a significant number of apocalyptic texts. The first reading and Gospel today are two examples. Although these apocalyptic texts share some similarities with the movies I have mentioned, there are important differences with respect to 1) who is the main audience of the texts and 2) the emotional response that the works are meant to evoke.

Significantly, apocalyptic texts in the Bible are intended to inspire downtrodden people with a sense of hope. The purpose of apocalyptic movies seem to be quite different. These movies are aimed at a society that is relatively comfortable. The stories are meant to be cautionary tales or inspire fear by pointing out what could happen if suddenly all the things we have are taken away. The first reading today was from the book of Daniel. This text was written in response to persecution of the Jewish people by the Greek King Antiochus IV around the year 165 BC. At this time, Antiochus IV tried to impose Greek culture and religion upon the Jews. He forbade circumcision and Jewish worship. Many Jews were violently persecuted and killed. The book of Daniel was meant give hope to the suffering. Through the use of imaginative and figurative language, the text inspires readers to believe that God is in control. Texts describe battles in heaven which mirror the conflicts on earth. The first reading describes that Michael is a leader in these battles. Just as God triumphs in these heavenly battles, so will God ultimately liberate his people on earth. Elsewhere in the book of Daniel (e.g. chapter 7), an enigmatic figure called the Son of Man is presented. The Son of Man is described as coming on clouds. He receives the power from God - called the “Ancient of Days” - to conquer and rule on behalf of God’s people. The message that God will eventually triumph over all that oppresses his people is meant to fill the downtrodden with a sense of hope.
Coin depicting Antiochus IV
Similarly, the Gospel today is meant to inspire those who suffer with the truth that Jesus is in control and will ultimately save them from their tribulations. Like the book of Daniel, the Gospel of Mark was probably written for a community that was suffering persecution or a severe setback. In the portion of Mark we heard today, Jesus uses apocalyptic language. First, he paints a vision of the “times after the tribulation” in which the sun and moon are darkened and the heavens quake. This suggests an undoing of the creation of the sun and the moon that God accomplished on the fourth day of creation recounted in the first chapter of Genesis. The message here is that the current state of the world will come to an end. This does not refer merely to the end of the world, but also to the end of the suffering that the people are enduring now. God will overcome the circumstances that are pressing down on the people and create something better for them. This vindication will come through Jesus. In the Gospel, Jesus identifies himself as the Son of Man, the mysterious figure presented in Daniel. Jesus, like the Son of Man, will come on clouds. Since clouds are often associated in the Old Testament with manifestations of God (e.g. Exod 24:16), with this imagery, Jesus seems to be highlighting his own divinity. At the same time, just at the Son of Man received authority and a mission from the Ancient of Days in Daniel, so Jesus was sent by his Father to save humanity from their sorrow. Through the use of rich, biblical imagery, Jesus communicates a clear message. “I know you are suffering now but have hope! I am with you. The time is coming soon when I will overcome what is troubling you and create a new and better situation for you.”

Above all, this message from the Gospel should encourage us when we are in the midst of our own tribulations. Jesus’ apocalyptic language is meant to give hope. Jesus, the Son of Man, has been given power and authority over all things. He will tear down the situations that oppress us and create something new and better for us. He loves us and cares for us. Perhaps we are currently overcome with desolation or depression. The Gospel is an opportunity to remind ourselves that God will eventually bring some consolation into our life as He has done in the past. Maybe current events, whether in politics or within the Church, fill us with anxiety. Jesus’ words remind us that he is in control. He has the power to overcome discord and unjust structures. Perhaps you or someone you love is battling illness. The Gospel is a reminder that Jesus is close to you and that there is hope that he can bring healing. Finally, when we come face to face with the reality of death, Jesus words are meant to encourage. Even after death he creates for a new and better life.

Unlike apocalyptic movies which communicate fear, the apocalyptic language in the first reading and Gospel is meant to encourage us. What area is your life is causing you difficulty? Let us invite Jesus into our lives, confident that he can and will overcome our sufferings and bring about something better.

Which is the first of all the commandments?

31 Sunday of OT | Deut 6:2-6; Mark 12:28-34


Imagine for a moment that a mother is dropping off her child for their first day at a new school. The mother and her child are close by one another speaking. The mother is giving her child some last minute advice for how the child should behave in the new school they are entering for the first time. What advice do you think that the mother would give the child in this situation?


In the first reading, Moses is in much the same situation as this mother as he is giving the people of Israel some important final instructions before they enter the land God promised them. The context of the book of Deuteronomy, from which today’s first reading is taken, is interesting. The last four books of the Pentateuch - Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy - all cover the span of Moses life. These books tell the story of how God liberated the people of Israel from slavery in Egypt and led them to the promised land. The entire book of Deuteronomy occurs on one day: the final day of Moses’ life. On this day, Moses and the people of Israel are gathered on the plains of Moab, on the verge of entering the promised land. Deuteronomy is composed largely the last words of Moses to Israel. Just as the mother will not enter the new school with her child, Moses will not enter the land with Israel. Like the mother, Moses is giving final instructions to Israel about how they should best live in the new land land that they will soon enter.


Moses’ most important advice, which we find in the first reading, is that the people love God in a wholehearted fashion. The passage from Deuteronomy 6:4 onwards is often called the “schema”, which is the Hebrew imperative “listen!”, which begins Moses’ exhortation. Just as it was at the time of Jesus, the schema is a fundamental prayer for the Jewish people today. In fact, we find the schema on the lips of Jesus in the Gospel today. In one beautiful custom, Jewish people will place a copy of the schema in an object called a mezuzah and fix the mezuzah to their doorposts. This practice serves as a powerful reminder to those passing through the door about how they should live in whatever room or building that they are entering. The schema has a simple yet profound logic. There is only one God. God is meant to be loved. If there were many gods, then we would be bound to love each of these gods with a divided heart. There is, however, only one God. For this reason, we need to love God with all our hearts, souls and mind. This is an important reminder for us. We can easily give our love to other “gods” in our lives like money or reputation. As a result, our focus from God is divided. The schema challenges us to be honest about the different false gods we love. It is a reminder to redirect our hearts back to God.
A mezuzah (source)
In the Gospel, Jesus specifies that loving God necessitates loving our neighbour. Jesus, when asked by a scribe “which is the greatest of the commandments”, bends the question a bit. He does not just give one commandment. First, he responds with the schema. Jesus then adds another commandment, this time from Leviticus (19:18), which has the effect of clarifying what it means to love God wholeheartedly: love your neighbour as yourself. As is often mentioned, this command to love your neighbour implicitly contains a third commandment: you need to love yourself. Here, we are not talking about self absorption or inordinate pride. We need to recognize that we are good. We have been created by God and God does not make junk! If we don’t love ourselves, it is hard to love others. Often, people who treat others badly, do so out of a deep self-loathing. Jesus’ response regarding what is the greatest commandment is an expression of the practical significance of the incarnation. In Jesus, we believe that God has become a human being, thereby linking God and humanity forever. If we really believe this, then loving God means loving those around us. If we do not, we cannot claim to love God.


What advice did you think that the mother would say to the child who is about to enter a new school? Perhaps you answered with some form of the commandments found in today’s readings: 1) love God; 2) have a proper love for yourself; and 3) love your neighbour. This is not just great advice for a child, but for each one of us. After Israel heard Moses' instructions at the threshold of the promised land, they had a choice: they could follow his advice or not. Jesus has told us what it takes to live in the kingdom of God. Let us choose to follow his advice!

Antisemitism is an offence against God

30th Sunday of OT | Jer 31:7-9; Mk 10:46-52

This Sunday I was going to preach a more general message about how the blind Bartimaeus in today’s Gospel is a model for each of us, teaching us how to cry out to Jesus at the hour of our need. When I woke up and read the news Saturday morning, however, I became convinced that there is some more specific need for which we need to cry out to God today.

Like many of you, I was horrified to read the news this Saturday morning about the mass shooting that occured at the Tree of Life Congregation synagogue in Pittsburgh. In this terrible act of anti-semitism, a gunman opened fire on a Jewish community gathered for prayer on the Shabbat, killing eleven people and wounding many others. As we condemn this evil action and offer our prayers and solidarity to the families affected and the larger Jewish community, we should recognize that this crime is part of an incredibly unsettling trend of increased anti-semitism in recent years. Recently, we have seen very public displays of anti-semitism, such as in Charlottesville last year. In Canada too anti-semitism has become more and more prevalent.  For example, according to the Toronto Police Service, the Jewish population is the most common group targeted by hate-crimes. This should deeply trouble us as Catholics. It is something to which we must respond.

In response, we need to clearly denounce anti-semitism for the evil that it is. Nostra Aetate, the document from the Second Vatican Council on the relationship of the Church to non-Christian religions, clearly denounced anti-semitism and called us as Catholics to speak out against it. As recent Popes, especially St. John Paul II, have noted, tragically Catholics in the past did not always do enough to combat anti-semitism and at times even fueled it. John Paul II, for example, recognized the actions and often inactions of Catholics that contributed to the Shoah (in his preface to, We Remember: A Reflection on the Shoah, 1998). Although Nostra Aetate clearly condemned the ideas that Jews are collectively guilty for the death of Jesus, this idea was permitted to exist among Catholics for too long, allowing anti-semitism to fester among Christians. This way of thinking was often the root of Jewish persecution in the past (for more, see here). Especially because anti-semitism has in the past found a place among Catholics, in light of recent events, we must clearly denounce it as evil. Anti-semitism is, as John Paul II said, an “offense against God” (here).
Michelangelo [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons
In addition to condemning anti-semitism, we need to be aware that, because of God’s covenant with Israel, the Jewish people have a unique and special place in the heart and plans of God. God’s covenant with the Jewish people is still in effect and is in fact irrevocable. Nostra Aetate clearly teaches this. In the first reading from today (Jer 31:7-9), the prophet Jeremiah beautifully speaks about God’s covenant with Israel. Jeremiah lived at a time of great crisis for the people of Israel, namely, the destruction of Jerusalem at the hands of the Babylonians in the year 587 BC. This event and the later crisis of the deportation provoked Jeremiah’s outpouring of grief and mourning. The message of Jeremiah, however, was also one of hope. In the passage we heard today, the prophet envisages a new action of God. Jeremiah was convinced that God would restore Israel to well being. As the prophet explains, on account of the covenant, the Jewish people are in a permanent and unique relationship with God who loves and cares for them.

Hearing this message of Jeremiah today compels us to stand in close solidarity with our Jewish brothers and sisters at a time when this evil has been committed against them. We pray especially for those who have died and for their families. We pray for our Jewish brothers and sisters, whether they be in Pittsburgh or closer to home, that the words of the prophet Jeremiah may be realized in in their midst. With Jeremiah we pray that they may experience the restoration of God the father, that he might bind the lame among them and console them.

Solving Money Troubles

28th Sunday OT, year B | Mark 10:17-27


We have all probably heard someone speak about their “money troubles”. This usually refers to the fact that they do not have enough money. In the story of the rich young man that we heard in the Gospel today, Jesus completely inverts our normal understanding of how money can cause trouble in our lives. Instead of too little wealth being an issue, Jesus teaches us that having too much money is the problem.


Jesus explains to his disciples that having too much wealth can be a barrier to entering the kingdom of heaven. “It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle
than for one who is rich to enter the kingdom of God”. Jesus’ disciples were “exceedingly astonished” when they heard this teaching. Why? One possible reason is that they thought that having wealth was considered a sign that you have God’s favour. In other words, if you were rich, then you were already in the kingdom of heaven. This idea is conveyed in certain passages in the Old Testament (e.g. Job 1:1). Just like us, the disciples probably thought that not having wealth was the problem. Jesus, however, says that the opposite is true. Having wealth makes it difficult, maybe even impossible, to enter the kingdom of heaven. If we stop and think about it, we can come up with some reasons why this makes a lot of sense. First, when we have many things, then it is too easy to think that we don’t need God. Second, when we have wealth, we tend to want more of it. The pursuit of material possessions can easily make us lose sight of what is most important in life. Third, the more things that we have, the more strictly we will be judged. “To whom much is given, much will be required” (Luke 12:48). If God has blessed us with material wealth it is probably so that we can help others with it. While we may think that not having enough wealth is a problem, Jesus reminds us that the real problem is having too much.
James Tissot [No restrictions or Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons
If having too much wealth is a serious problem that can prevent us from entering the kingdom of heaven, is the solution to give it all away? In the Gospel, Jesus tells the rich young man to sell all that he has and give it to the poor. Are we required to take this admonition literally? For some Christians, the answer was yes. A famous example is St. Anthony. He lived around the year 300, and was born into a relatively wealthy family in Egypt. When he was 18, Anthony’s parents died. Soon afterwards, he happened to enter a Church while Jesus’ teaching that we heard in the Gospel today was being proclaimed. Anthony understood the invitation to “go, sell what you have and give it to the poor” to be literally addressed to him. Leaving the Church, he sold his wealth, gave it to the poor and went to live as a monk in the desert. For some, the way of dealing with the problem that wealth poses to entering the kingdom of heaven is to give it all away like St. Anthony. Most of us, however, are probably not called to make such a radical renunciation of material goods.


While we may not be able to give literally everything we have to the poor, in order to overcome the barrier that wealth creates to entering the kingdom, we are required to give to the poor. A major message of today’s Gospel is that following Jesus needs to come before the pursuit of wealth. We are called to put our material goods at the service of following Christ. Because Jesus calls us to give to the poor, Christians have always viewed almsgiving as a serious obligation and not just some optional spiritual practice. Consider, for example, these words from St. Basil the Great:
The bread you do not use is the bread of the hungry. The garment hanging in your wardrobe is the garment of the person who is naked. The shoes you do not wear are the shoes of the one who is barefoot. The money you keep locked away is the money of the poor. The acts of charity you do not perform are the injustices you commit.
Now, you may be wondering, if I need to give to the poor but cannot give everything, how much should I give? C. S. Lewis, the Christian scholar and author of the Narnia series gives a good answer:
I do not believe one can settle how much we ought to give. I am afraid the only safe rule is to give more than we can spare. In other words, if our expenditure on comforts, luxuries, amusements, etc., is up to the standard common among those with the same income as our own, we are probably giving away too little. If our charities do not at all pinch or hamper us, I should say they are too small. There ought to be things we should like to do and cannot do because our charitable expenditure excludes them.


The Gospel today invites us to rethink what we consider to be “money troubles”. Having too much rather than too little wealth is an obstacle to entering the kingdom of heaven. The way to overcome this problem is by giving to the poor. Although how much we give is between us and God, we can be sure that this is something we will have to account for in the end.

"Is it lawful for a husband to divorce his wife?"

27th Sunday of OT, year B | Gen 2:18-24; Mark 10:2-12

Although I am not married, as a priest I have witnessed many weddings! Whenever I hear the couple vowing to love and honour each other for the rest of their lives, I am not only struck by their love for one another, but by their courage and trust in God. In that moment, they do not know what the future will hold: the joys, but also the great challenges. In spite of this, they promise to never give up on one another, irrespective of what will happen. This is an incredibly brave thing to do. In the readings today, we heard a strong message about the beautiful and radical nature of marriage.

The first reading from Genesis (Gen 2:18-24) spoke to us about the special relationship that exists between a man and a woman who are married. The story of the first man and woman, far from being some eye-witness account or instruction in history or geography, represents the inspired reflections of wise individuals who were raising fundamental questions and trying to answer them through the use of symbolic language. Where do we come from? What is the relationship that exists between God and humanity? What is the relationship that exists between man and woman? In presenting an answer to this last question, the story explains that woman was made from a rib taken from the side of the man. This tells us something about how the author of Genesis understood the relationship between men and women. Earlier in the story we saw that none of the animals in the garden were a suitable partner for the man. In saying that woman was formed from the side of man, the author is perhaps explaining that man and woman are meant to be “side by side” with one another. This denotes a closeness and equality. It also conveys the message that man and woman are incomplete without the other. Without woman, man is missing a part of himself, his rib. Likewise, without man, woman is missing a part of herself, the rest of the body that went with the rib. Only when man and woman are together are they complete. As Genesis explains, this unity between man and woman through which they complete one another occurs in a unique way in marriage.
Rogier van der Weyden [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons
In the Gospel (Mark 10:2-12), Jesus teaches us that the unity that exists between husband and wife is meant by God to be indissolvable, that is, to endure for the lifetime of the couple. At the start of the Gospel, the Pharisees question Jesus in order to draw him into a debate on a question that was hotly contested at that time. According to Deuteronomy 24:1-4, Moses permitted a man to write a note divorcing his wife because of “an indecency in her”. At Jesus’ time, religious authorities argued whether this “indecency”, and therefore the reason for which a man could divorce his wife, had to be something serious, or whether it could be a trivial matter. In his response, Jesus appeals to the text from Genesis that we heard in the first reading. He bases his argument on how God originally intended marriage to be. Moses’ instruction permitting divorce, Jesus explains, was a concession based on the inability of people to accept God’s design for marriage. According to Jesus, the unity between a husband and wife was intended by God to be permanent. As a result, anyone who divorces and marries another commits adultery.

We need to continue proclaiming Jesus’ teaching on marriage because it is a source of hope and life for us. Now, there are those who argue that Jesus’ teaching was conditioned by the time in which he lived. In our current context, they argue, we should understand his teaching differently. It is important to understand that Jesus’ teaching on marriage was as radical sounding when he first said it as it is today. This teaching was as difficult to proclaim then as it is now. When it comes to proclaiming Jesus’ teaching on marriage, we must, on the one hand, have a great sensitivity for those whose marriages have broken up. As Pope Francis has so beautifully said, the Church is a “field hospital”. We are to meet people where they are, accept them and care for them. We realize that there are cases, such as abuse, in which a separation may be the best way forward. We need to do all we can to ensure that those who are divorced and those who are divorced and remarried feel genuinely welcomed by the Church. We should seek to integrate them as much as possible into the life of the Church. On the other hand, this care for those whose marriages have broken up should be accompanied with the proclamation of Jesus’ message that God intends marriage to last for the life of the couple. God intends the best for us. Jesus wants people to know God’s plan for marriage because he wants people to have joy and the fullness of life. In marriage, God intends the couple to make a complete gift of themselves to each other. This gift is something permanent, not just for a time. All marriages encounter difficulties. By proclaiming that God intends marriages to be permanent, we can give hope to couples. Though there are difficulties, perseverance will be for their good since it is in accord with God’s plan. God’s plan for us is happiness. This can be a source of hope and support for the couple.

The readings in the Mass today encourage us to reflect on the gift of marriage. We give thanks today for those couples who, in their perseverance through the ups and downs of their marriage, give witness to the unity that God intends marriage to have. We recognize that the break up of a marriage is always a tragedy and we commit ourselves to caring for those who find themselves in a broken marriage. We pray for couples who are struggling in their marriage, that God may give them the strength to persevere. Finally, we pray for those couples who are preparing for marriage, that they may, with great courage and confidence in God’s assistance, promise to love and honour one another for as long as they live.

Tips for fighting temptation

26th Sunday of Ordinary Time, year B | Mk 9:38-48

Some years ago, I was visiting a Church with my nephew, who was about four at the time. When he looked at the crucifix behind the altar, he became quite troubled. He started asking questions like “why is that man nailed to the wood?” and “why is he bleeding?” His response made me realize that it is a troubling and surprising thing to have a crucified man displayed so prominently in our Churches. I had seen the image so often, however, that I lost sight of this fact. We run into problems as Christians when we become overly comfortable with Jesus. His actions and words shocked and unsettled those who witnessed them. Because we have heard his words so often, we can forget how truly provocative they are. Today in the Gospel, we heard some shocking words from Jesus that help wake us up to the radical nature of his message.

Using some incredible strong and startling language, Jesus instructs us to get serious about rooting out sin in our lives. If your hand causes you to sin… cut it off! If your foot causes you to sin… cut it off! If your eye causes you to sin… tear it out! Although Jesus is certainly not commanding us to literally maim ourselves, through the use of this hyperbolic language, Jesus is conveying an urgent message about the severity of sin. Sin harms us. It prevents us from entering into the kingdom of God. It stops us from enjoying the fullness of life. Because sin is so harmful, Jesus commands us to take decisive and even radical action in order to root it out from our life. When we hear Jesus’ strong admonition in the Gospel today, it is impossible not to reflect on our own lives. What sin might Jesus be asking me to pay attention to rooting out? A tendency to speak badly about those around me? Greed that prevents me from sharing what I have with those in need? A habit of giving into lustful thoughts or actions?
By U.S. Air Force Photo by Josh Plueger [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons
In order to root out sin in our lives, we need to have a strategy for fighting temptation. Over the years I have heard some tips for fighting temptation that I have found helpful.
  • Tip 1: Counter temptation when you are first aware of it. Imagine that someone makes a small snowball and releases it at the top of a hill covered in snow. As the snowball moves down the hill, it gathers more and more snow to itself as it rolls down the hill. Eventually, it will become a great big ball. At the top of the hill, while the snowball is still small, it is easy to stop its progress. As the ball makes its way downhill and grows, however, it becomes harder and harder to stop. Temptation is like this. When it first arises in our mind it is easier to stop. The longer we entertain a temptation, the more it grows and the harder it becomes to stop until it can simply run us over like a large snowball plowing down a hill.
  • Tip 2: When we take strong and decisive action in the face of temptation, it can be more easily overcome. As Jesus explains in the Gospel, when it comes to battling temptation, half measures will not do. St. Ignatius explains that in tempting us the Devil is like a barking dog. if you are firm and determined from the beginning, the dog will back off. When temptations come, we should not only resist them right away. We should resist them strongly.
  • Tip 3: Move in the opposite direction that the temptation prompts. St. Ignatius called this strategy of going against what we are feeling agir contra. Are you tempted to say something negative about someone? Don’t just say nothing, compliment them instead. Feeling lazy and not wanting to spend 10 minutes to clean your room? Clean your room for 12 minutes instead. Frustrated with a particular individual? Go out of your way to be kind to them. By not simply resisting the temptation but actively going against the way that temptation prompts you helps to more completely defeat the temptation. If the devil realizes that you pray longer when you are tempted not to pray, then this temptation will probably not arise as often!
  • Tip 4: Stay focused on the positive reasons for fighting the temptation. We want to stop sinning not only in order to avoid what Jesus calls the “unquenchable fire” of gehenna, but also so that we can have life and enter into the kingdom of God. We should want to fight temptation not only in order to avoid the ugliness of sin, but also because we are drawn by the beauty and goodness of virtue and holiness.
  • Tip 5: Do not grow discouraged. Even when we are actively trying to overcome a particular sin, we will fall. What is important is that we trust in the love and mercy of Jesus and keep trying. In struggling against temptation, the expression “fall six times, stand up seven” certainly applies. When we fall, we need to get up, seek God’s mercy and keep trying.

It is good when Jesus’ words shock and disturb us because they can lead us to action. Jesus speaks strongly in the Gospel about the need to uproot sin from our lives. Without a strategy for fighting temptation, overcoming sin may remain wishful thinking. What practical step can you take to work towards battling temptation in your life?

Law of the Gift

25th Sunday in Ordinary Time, year B | Mark 9:30-37

I recently read an article from someone who quit his job spent the last year travelling around world. The writer explained that he made the decision to travel because he had had enough of the cycle of waking up, going to work, eating dinner, going to sleep and waking up in the morning only to do it all over again. He was unable to find meaning in this daily grind and thought to himself that surely there must be more to life than this. We can all probably identify with the writer’s attitude. At times, our routine and responsibilities can weigh us down. We can feel like our life is without meaning. Unlike the writer, however, most of us probably cannot leave everything and travel the world for the year in search of purpose! What then are we to do? Today’s Gospel would suggest that what can be more important than changing what we do each day is changing the attitude or spirit with which we do the things that we do.

Jesus teaches us that a meaningful life is one in which you live your life as a gift for others. We find purpose when we work, study and serve our family and others because we want to make of ourselves a gift to those around us. We have all probably experienced the joy and sense of meaning that comes when we freely choose to give of ourselves (our time and talents) to others. Can you remember the last time that you felt this way? Maybe you helped a family member or friend when they were in trouble. Perhaps you volunteered in your community in some way. That we find joy and purpose when we give ourselves to others is sometimes called the “law of the gift”. St. John Paul II would often explain this law by saying that every human being cannot fully find themselves, except through a sincere gift of themselves. This is the logic of the cross that we see in the Gospel. Jesus explains that he will only gain life for himself and for others after he has given himself over totally to be killed. Further, after Jesus learns that his disciples were arguing among themselves about who was the greatest, he instructs them that whoever wants to be first of all must be the servant of all. Jesus teaches us that we find our true purpose when we live our lives as a gift for other.

Martyrs lived in a special way the law of the gift and are powerful examples for us. This coming Wednesday (September 26th), we will celebrate in Canada the feast of the Canadian Martyrs. Among these martyrs is St. Jean Brébeuf, a Jesuit missionary who travelled from France to New France (now part of Canada) in 1625 in order to serve as a missionary to the indigenous. Although it could be argued that some of his writings are tinged by a certain attitude, which unfortunately was all to common at the time, of the superiority of European over indigenous culture, it is impossible to read his writings and not be struck by the genuine love and devotion that he had for those he served, especially the Huron people. Brébeuf devoted himself to learning the language, culture and spirituality of the people that he was trying to introduce to faith in Jesus. Ultimately, he was captured by a hostile indigenous group, and, along with some converts from the Huron people, was horrible tortured and ultimately killed. Brébeuf died alongside the very people he had given his life to serve. During his life, Brébeuf had various opportunities to choose a different, more comfortable life, however, he found his purpose and joy by making his life a gift to others in a radical way.
By Thwaites, Reuben Gold, 1853-1913 [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons
In order to live the law of the gift and experience a deeper sense of purpose in our life, we may need to change our attitude towards work, school or other difficult or monotonous tasks. Instead of doing more, we may need to think differently about what we do. I am not going to suggest to you that you need to spend more time serving others. Although there may be some of us who do need to help others more, most of the people I have met in parishes spend much of their lives serving others. There are parents who make sacrifices constantly to care for their children. There are those who work day in and day out at a job that can often be unfulfilling in order to provide for their family. There are grandparents who do so much to help care for their grandchildren. There are people who, though already busy, give what little free time they have to volunteer in their parish or around the community. Although we have all at some time felt the joy that comes from living the law of the gift, in our daily routine it can be hard to experience this. Even with tasks we know are important and meaningful, a certain heaviness can sink in. When this happens, it is important that we evaluate the reason why we do difficult tasks and perhaps make an adjustment. Are we motivated by a sense of obligation or necessity? We can regain meaning in our life when we choose to have the attitude that the things we do each day, whether it be at work, school or in the family, are our way of making ourselves a gift to others.

The Greek word used for “conversion” in the New Testament, metanoia, literally means to change one’s mind. Living the law of the gift requires such a change of mind. We can find purpose and meaning in the midst of our daily grind by changing the spirit with which we approach our work and responsibilities. Is there an aspect of your life, whether it be in your family, school or at work, that you find particularly difficult? Can you begin to think of this as one way that you are making your life a gift to others?